Manipulative Boyfriend Throws A Fit When His GF Requests Alone Time For A Presentation

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Mayarey
Nov 28, 2021 3:00 PM EST

Every couple feels comfortable with different boundary levels. Some people choose to see each other 2-3 times a week, while others tend to be attached at the hip. It's easy to judge others and say, "Oh, they're far too co-dependent," Or, "Oh, they barely even want to see each other." But we all know that what we see from the outside does not usually reveal too much about a specific couple dynamic.

This couple doesn't live together, but it seems the boyfriend has become a little too comfortable with mooching from his girlfriend's home. Even though there's definitely more to the story, based on this account, what do you think? Does a boundary need to be enforced here? 

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  • 01
    Font - Posted by u/corndaddyz 4 hours ago AITA for asking my boyfriend to leave the apartment?
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    Font - I (23f) pay for my apartment (its 1 room) and my boyfriend (23m) practically lives here. But, he is not on the lease, does not pay rent, the bills, or groceries. He does some chores.
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    Font - I have a big final presentation for my class tomorrow and I told him I would like him to leave at around that time. He was already going to go to the gym around that time so I thought it wasn't a big deal. He also tends to be loud, plays games loudly (hes rough on controllers), and I'm just shy and I get really scared of presentations.
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    Font - So, I just wanted a quiet space to be comfortable for the presentation.
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    Font - He got pissed and said I can't just tell him to leave. But I told him it was MY apartment. He then said "I don't kick you out when I have presentations". I said to him again its my apartment. He got mad and said wow and isn't talking to me now.
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    Human body - AITA for just wanting him to leave for a bit?
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told him he has to leave for my presentation, which made him upset. I told him its my apartment. I might be the asshole for holding that over him even though he has been practically living here.
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    Font - Salty_Hedgehog5874 · 4h Partassipant [1] NTA but you need to find a new bf
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    Font - Derpy7664 · 3h Partassipant [3] NOPE NTA and that sounds like he is freeloading off of you. Because im gonna assume he lives with his parents and doesnt have anywhere else to freeload. my advice dont let him live there for like 2 weeks and see what happens. Start setting boundaries for yourself girl
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    Font - YeahWTF20 · 3h Cocklodgers do tend to get furious when their cocklodgery is blocked.
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    Font - Eyes_and_teeth · 3h NTA. He got mad and said wow and isn't talking to me now. Sounds like Mission Accomplished in the short term. Might want to consider making it permanent.
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    Font - agirlwithnames · 3h Asshole Enthusiast [5] NTA, do you really wanna be with someone who doesn't respect your boundaries? It's not his damn house, he needs to bounce.
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